Feeling the loss of old friends
By Terry Waite - 13/08/2010
“You must expect it when you get beyond 70,” said my wife the other day. She was not referring to minor ailments but to the fact that increasingly as one gets older one finds one’s friends departing this life with increasing regularity. This past year has been particularly hard from that point of view. The latest blow came when I heard of the death of my long time friend Beryl Bainbridge. Beryl of course was one of the remarkable troupe of characters who hailed from Liverpool.
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